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Complete Glossary of Terms (PFLAG)

Term

Definition

AFAB

Assigned Female at Birth. The term is used to discuss the experiences of people with a specific biological background, without reference to their gender or femininity.

Affirmed Gender

A person’s true identity. This term replaces outdated concepts such as ‘chosen gender’, emphasising that gender is not something one chooses, but something one comes to recognise.

Agender

The experience of a person who does not identify with any gender or feels they lack a gender identity.

Alloromantic

People who experience romantic attraction of any kind.

Allosexual

People who experience sexual attraction of any kind.

Ally

People who support the LGBTQ+ community. This isn’t just an identity, but an active process of taking action and self-education.

AMAB

Assigned Male at Birth. Similarly, AFAB is a term used to discuss experiences without reference to masculinity.

Androgynous

A combination of feminine and masculine traits in appearance or self-expression.

Aroflux

A romantic orientation that shifts (fluctuates) within the aromantic spectrum.

Aromantic (aro)

People who do not experience romantic attraction

Asexual (ace)

The absence of, or a very low level of, sexual attraction to other people.

Assigned Sex

The sex determined by doctors at birth on the basis of physical characteristics.

Assumed Gender

The gender that others attribute to a person based on their appearance or the sex assigned at birth

Bi-curious

A term used by those exploring the possibility of being attracted to people of different genders. It should be used with caution, as some consider it stigmatising.

Bigender

An identity that encompasses two genders (either simultaneously or alternately).

Binary

A social concept that recognises the existence of only two sexes and genders: male and female.

Binding

The process of safely compressing the chest to achieve gender comfort.

Bioessentialism

The belief that biology determines one’s identity. It is often used as a tool to discriminate against trans people.

Biological Sex

The combination of anatomical and physiological characteristics (chromosomes, hormones, organs).

Biphobia

Hostility, prejudice or discrimination against bisexual people.

BIPOC

An acronym used to refer to Black, Indigenous and people of colour.

Biromantic

The ability to feel romantic attraction towards people of more than one gender.

Bisexual (bi or bi+)

The ability to feel attraction (sexual or romantic) towards people of more than one gender.

Bottom Surgery

Surgical procedures on the genitals and reproductive system as part of gender transition.

Butch

A masculine form of self-expression through clothing and behaviour (most commonly used within the lesbian community).

Chosen Family

Close people who provide support in place of, or alongside, one’s own family.

Cisgender (cis)

The alignment of one’s gender identity with the sex assigned at birth.

Cisnormativity

The belief that cisgender identity is the only norm.

Closeted

The state prior to coming out.

Coming Out

The process of realising, accepting and revealing one’s identity.

Disclosure

Disclosing one’s trans status (some prefer this term to ‘coming out’).

Drag

The art of transformation through the exaggeration of gender traits.

Femme

Feminine self-expression through clothing and behaviour.

Folx

An inclusive spelling of the word ‘folks’ (people, lads) in English.

FTM/F2M

‘Female to male’. This term may be considered outdated.

Furry

People interested in art and creativity centred around anthropomorphic characters (animals endowed with human traits). This is a creative subculture that overlaps with the LGBTQ+ community, but is not in itself a sexual orientation or gender identity.

Gatekeeping

Attempts by individuals or institutions (such as doctors) to dictate the conditions under which a person’s identity will be recognised as ‘genuine’. This involves imposing external criteria (appearance, plans for surgery, behaviour) rather than respecting the individual’s right to self-determination.

Gay

1. A person who is attracted to people of the same gender (used as an umbrella term).

2. A man (including trans men) who is attracted to men. It is not necessary to have had any sexual experience: sexual orientation is determined by attraction and self-identification, rather than the gender or sexual orientation of one’s partner.

Gender

A person’s sense of self, which encompasses their internal sense of self (identity) and the external ways in which this is expressed. It may or may not correspond to biological sex or social stereotypes.

Gender-Affirming Surgery (GAS)

Medical procedures designed to help align the body with a person’s gender identity.

Gender Binary

The belief that there are only two genders.

Gender Dysphoria

A sense of discomfort caused by a mismatch between one’s gender identity and the sex assigned at birth.

Gender Expansive

A broad term for people who express or experience gender in different ways.

Gender Expression

The outward expression of gender: clothing, behaviour.

Gender Fluid

An identity that changes over time.

Gender Identity

A person’s sense of their own gender.

Gender Nonconforming

Behaviour that does not conform to societal expectations.

Gender Neutral

A term that does not indicate gender or sex.

Genderqueer

A term used by some people who do not conform to traditional gender norms.

Grayromantic (gray aro)

A rare or situational romantic attraction.

Homophobia

Hostility, hatred or dislike towards homosexual people.

Homosexual

An outdated clinical term.

Hormone Blockers

(See Puberty Blockers)

Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)

Medical care that uses hormones to support gender transition.

Intersex

People with variations in sex characteristics that fall outside the binary model.

Intersectionality

A theory concerning the intersection of social identities and unique systems of oppression and privilege.

Lesbian

A woman (including trans women) who is attracted to women. It is not necessary to have had any sexual experience: sexual orientation is determined by attraction and self-identification, rather than by the gender or sexual orientation of one’s partner.

LGBTQ+

An acronym for Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, Transgender people, Queer/Questioning, and others.

Misgendering

The use of incorrect pronouns or forms of address.

MTF/M2F

Male to Female; Transgender woman; Not used by PFLAG.

MTX/M2X

Male to X; a genderqueer or non-binary person registered as male at birth; not used by PFLAG.

Nibling

A gender-neutral term for a brother’s or sister’s children.

Nonbinary (NB or Enby)

Identity outside the ‘male/female’ binary.

Nonbinary Lesbian

A non-binary person who is attracted to women.

Omniromantic

A romantic attraction to all genders (taking into account the partner’s gender).

Omnisexual

Attraction to people of any gender, where the partner’s gender is taken into account.

Opposite Sex

An unsuitable, inaccurate descriptor of sex or gender.

Out

Open self-identifiсation as a LGBTQ+ person.

Outing

The deliberate or accidental disclosure of another person’s identity without their consent.

Panromantic

People whose romantic attraction is not dependent on the gender or sex of the other person.

Pansexual (pan)

People whose sexual attraction is not dependent on another person’s gender or sex.

Polyamorous

Ethical relationships with multiple partners, with the consent of all parties involved.

Polyromantic

Feels romantic attraction towards people of more than one, but not all, genders.

Positive

Indicates HIV-positive status.

Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP)

Emergency post-exposure prophylaxis for HIV.

Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP)

HIV pre-exposure prophylaxis.

Preference

A specific set of desires regarding partners; this is not the same as sexual orientation.

Pre-, Post-, or Non-Operative (or -Op)

Terms used to describe the surgical status of a transgender person.

Privilege

Benefits granted to a particular group in society without having earned them.

Pronouns

Words used to refer to oneself (he, she, they).

Puberty Blockers

A form of gender-affirming medical care designed to prevent undesirable outcomes of puberty.

QTPOC

Acronym: Queer and Trans People of Colour.

Queerbaiting

Hints at the LGBTQ+ community in marketing without any genuine representation.

Queerplatonic

A type of relationship that is deeper than friendship, but neither romantic nor sexual.

Queerspawn

A term for people from LGBTQ+ families.

Questioning

People who are in the process of exploring their identity.

Romantic Orientation

A model of romantic attraction, regardless of sexual orientation.

Sex

Biological sex.

Sex Binary

The belief that there are only two biological sexes.

Sexual Behavior

The sexual acts in which a person engages; this does not necessarily correspond to their sexual orientation.

Sexual Health

Physical, emotional, psychological and social well-being in relation to sexuality.

Sexual Identity

Self-determination in sexuality.

Sexual Minority

A general term used to describe a group whose sexual orientation, identity or practices differ from those of the majority of heterosexual people.

Sexual Orientation

A person’s inner emotional, romantic and/or physical attraction to other people.

Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)

Sexually transmitted infections.

Stud

A black/African, Latin American or other non-white butch lesbian.

Top Surgery

Breast surgery performed as part of gender transition.

Transgender (trans)

A person whose gender identity does not correspond to the sex assigned at birth.

Transmasculine (transmasc)

A general term for people assigned female at birth but who present in a masculine manner.

Transphobia

Hostility, hatred or dislike towards transgender people.

Transromantic

A person who feels romantic attraction towards transgender people.

Transsexual

An outdated clinical term used to describe transgender people who have undergone or are planning to undergo medical transition.

Transwoman

Transgender woman.

Transition

The process by which a transgender person begins to live in accordance with their gender.

Transman

Transgender man.

Undiagnosed

Refers to a person who is HIV-positive but is unaware of it.

Unearned privilege

An privilege that is unearned.

Unsupported

Young people whose families actively reject their identity.

Valid

The recognition of people’s feelings, identity or experiences.

Values

The beliefs that guide people in their lives.

Virulent

Refers to HIV that is still replicating in the body.

Virgin/Virginity

Outdated, inaccurate and judgemental terms.

WLW

Women Who Love Women; a term used to describe lesbians, bisexuals, pansexuals or other women who are attracted to the same gender.

Woman-identified

A person who identifies as a woman.

WSW

Women Who Have Sex with Women; an abbreviation frequently used in public health.

WPATH

The World Professional Association for Transgender Health.